Thursday, July 15, 2010
break ups friendships and all that jazz....
do break ups happen only in relationships like the girl friend boy friend relationships?does the phenomena occur in friendship and all...it does....in a boyfriend girlfriend thing the things preceding and succeeding are very stereotypical...the rona dhona and all....little tiffs where you lose your patience and the things surmount and you feel that you can't take it anymore...and after the breakup you are down and regretting it all..my best friend's bro wrote a very interesting note about breakups on Facebook...i absolutely loved it...it actually describes what all goes in your mind and life after break up...
but in friendship...the most pivotal thing is lack of expectation...not in the negative sense though...friends are generally chilled out....they are cool if you don't answer their calls , don't return their calls, don't reply to their messages ...they don't mess with your head, don't argue with you about why you never give them time...don't get upset if you flirt around...,might even give you tips on how to do it..!!!
breakup in friendship is not an event..its not a series of tear filled discussions or arguements...its a gradual painful detachment starting from the time when you realise that your friend doesn't need you anymore,,,,no when it hits you that you weren't needed since a long time, you just didn't realise it....and then starts the whole telling yourself that if it makes your friend happy then so be it...you will always be there.....
but in friendship...the most pivotal thing is lack of expectation...not in the negative sense though...friends are generally chilled out....they are cool if you don't answer their calls , don't return their calls, don't reply to their messages ...they don't mess with your head, don't argue with you about why you never give them time...don't get upset if you flirt around...,might even give you tips on how to do it..!!!
breakup in friendship is not an event..its not a series of tear filled discussions or arguements...its a gradual painful detachment starting from the time when you realise that your friend doesn't need you anymore,,,,no when it hits you that you weren't needed since a long time, you just didn't realise it....and then starts the whole telling yourself that if it makes your friend happy then so be it...you will always be there.....
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